There are cougars out there that use sex as a proxy for emotional fulfillment. They have all sorts of emotional hang ups. Maybe their ex-boyfriends fucked them up. Maybe their dads or the males in their lives did not give them the love and assurance that they needed growing up. Whatever the fucking case is, they are a mess now and they think that the more guys they fuck, the better they become.

Unfortunately, that’s a fucked up way to deal with deep seated issues. People like that need professional help because that’s what responsible people do. Unfortunately, they think that sex is a form of therapy, and guess what? You are the therapist for the day. Now, there’s nothing wrong with that but if you’re just looking for random anonymous sex but what happens next is what really seemed fucked up, they’re going to come back to you again and again because she’s dependent to you.

And this is going to be really fucked up because if you are a good person, you know that this is a bad thing. You know that you’re just enabling her in her weird twisted emotional dependency. So the best strategy is to spot these people early on and get the fuck out of their way and avoid all the drama and bs. It is for this reason mainly that I switched my adult dating to cougars specifically and have been using cougar dating sites like this one for years now.